Play-Based Business Plan

We watched Daddy Day Care last night, a movie about two laid off dads taking advantage of an opportunity to “clean up” in a town of horrible day care choices. Of course they discover the side benefits of running a…

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I don’t want to get back to the “true meaning”

I originally didn’t want to write today about how the economy is affecting our holiday. I mean, I’ve been a Grinch for years, pushing for emailing Christmas cards, eliminating presents for anyone but the kids, or at least not mom…

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Diversity Education Starts at Home

I’ll confess right now that I have not been actively teaching my kids about diversity. Beyond telling them that people all have different talents, diversity has not been a big topic of discussion in our home. As a mom, an…

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Scary times in the Valley

There’s nothing like spending one to two hours a day reassuring employees and co-workers that they will probably not be laid off when you’re a busy working mom with no extra time. Well, besides the fact that I’m really not…

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The Pick-up Playdate

You’ve heard about the drop-off playdate, that lovely invention that allows busy mommies a bit of free time and active kiddos a chance to torment someone besides their little brother. Okay, I’ve never actually dropped my kids off anywhere specifically…

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Save me from the Horrible Guilt

Susan wanted to sell her Mama Guilt recently over in Chicago, and while no, I don’t need to buy anymore (thank you very much), it sure brought up guilt pangs of my own. I thought I had it under control….

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When Will it End?

Our own little silicon-valley-family-economy has been going down hill for a while. First my husband decided to pursue his dream job, which, lets just say, doesn’t have a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow five year plan….

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Shout Out to East Palo Alto Teacher: Help Students Learn to Read and Speak English

I remember last year sitting in my son’s kindergarten class at their reading comprehension station, where they’d listen to a story then write and draw pictures about it. I was amazed to see an actual cassette tape! When was the…

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You Go J-Lo

I’m not a big celebrity news follower, not even having time to keep up with friends, much less random strangers, but I do read the Mercury News gossip column, and when I read this it just pissed me off.J-Lo made…

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Bad Things come in Threes, Fours, Fives?

I rushed out of the house the other morning, still on time for school, to find my driver side window smashed to smithereens. Actually I opened my trunk, which set off the alarm, which made me look to see if…

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I Can’t Take the Tears - Day 1 Redux

I keep reading about your kids who want to go to school but can’t, who are way more ready than mom for school and then there’s the one who got a break for two more weeks. I spoke to my…

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I’m Living in a Nudist Colony

I’m pretty comfortable with nudity, having grown up in the seventies with geek hippie-wannabe parents, meaning they never actually managed the sex, drugs and rock and roll, but had nothing against it, and were slightly bummed they studied their way…

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Ain’t No Cure for the Summertime Blues

The other night my son told me he didn’t want me to go to work. “I only get to see you in the morning and night. And you are too tired to play with me in the morning.” In fact,…

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My Own Private Swim Club

A was enjoying a little birthday dinner with some friends at Vino Locale and I mentioned how nice it was to share a bottle of wine with a friend at our pool, as our kids frolicked in the water. “You…

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G’Head, Hurl those Insults, Doesn’t Bother Me

“I hate you!” “I wanted it cut up.” “I didn’t want it cut up” “Why do we always have to walk the dogs?” “We always go to this park.” “I’m not talking to you anymore.” “You are the meanest mommy…

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The Day You Were Born

I’ve read in a couple places, most recently in Writing Motherhood, that a nice tradition is to tell your kids their birth story on their birthday. I thought that was a little weird, frankly, so we just show the video….

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I Can’t Stop Thinking About Her

I’m driving in my car, I turn on the radio I’m pulling you close, you just say no Bruce Springstein, Fire It only lasted a week, but I still think about her all the time. I feel like I’m betraying…

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“Family Values” Rear their Ugly Head Again

Yesterday morning I opened the paper to read this disturbing headline: Gay marriage ban qualifies for Calif. ballot What? What? I am so confused. Recently California had some momentous news. The Supreme Court struck down a ban on same-sex marriage….

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How to Avoid Missing Your Kids on a Business Trip


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Chicken Nuggets, Mac and Cheese or Hotdogs?


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I Have Bad Thoughts about my Dogs


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Day of Silence - April 25

I found out tonight that a slew of high schools and others around the country are going to observe a day of silence on April 25 in commemoration of “Lawrence King, a 15 year-old student who was killed in school…

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Have Boy, Need Preschool

I’ve been in denial too long, I have to acknowledge I’ve got one of those boys. The ones who don’t want to sit still, who pushes kids back when they push him, and plays when he should be napping. In…

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